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Originally Published February 15, 2025 Each day, my gratitude deepens for the incredible women I’ve encountered in the sex work industry. This field is largely a “lone wolf” profession. We can’t discuss our work with most people, and we often work independently. The bonds I’ve formed with fellow sex worker friends have been essential to […]

Originally Published February 12. 2025 Reflecting on my life, I realize that my current situation is far from what I anticipated. At the beginning of my life, my path was crystal clear. Every problem had an obvious solution, and I couldn’t see a life where I would not achieve my goals. Everything looked black and

Originally Published February 5, 2025 What do you picture when you think of the men who visit sex workers? I bet it’s not someone decent, unlike yourself. They’re probably seen as perverts trying to exploit a vulnerable woman and maybe even searching for drugs. Certainly not a nice guy or a family man with a

Originally Published February 2, 2025 Our society views sex work through a negative lens, painting it as unworthy of respect, and people who engage in it as desperate and addicted to drugs. According to a study by the Urban Institute, approximately 67% of people believe sex work is inherently exploitative. This perception contributes to harsh

Originally Published January 30, 2025 When depression knocked on my door, I had no idea what a deep impact it would have on my life. I always thought that overcoming challenges was just a matter of willpower. I believed that a sprinkle of motivation could turn things around. But dang it I was dead wrong.

Originally Published August 24, 2024 Having been married for 20 years, I currently work as a sex worker and cater mainly to nice married men. This particular vantage point has greatly influenced my outlook on the matter. If I were to be completely honest with myself I had unfulfilled desires in my marriage, I would

Originally Published August 5, 2024 During my youth, I felt safest in my grandmother’s home. I have fond memories of summer days spent finding a shady spot in her backyard. I would relax, listening to the soothing sound of cicadas, only to be jolted back to reality by the sudden noise of the air conditioner

Originally Published July 23, 2024 In my last blog I talked about if I actually liked doing sex work. I shared my reasons and the fact that yes I was very happy doing sex work. This led to many people asking me how I even started in sex work, including clients, potential clients, and other

Originally Published July 8, 2024 Many individuals are curious about this question but may not be sure how to ask about it delicately. Is sex work something I find enjoyable? Sex work is my profession. I have held long term white collar jobs working in the field I received my graduate degree in. Each with

Originally Published May 17, 2024 Today I am closing on the third house I have purchased. It caused me to think about the last home I purchased and how different this time feels. Shortly before the closing of my last house, an error by the recommended mortgage broker caused a major issue, leading to the