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Originally Published May 8, 2025 As Mother’s Day approaches, I’m reminded that motherhood is a dance of connection, and every step you take ripples through your family’s rhythm. As a sex worker and mom, I’ve woven an unseen influence into our household’s dynamics—shaping how we talk, trust, and thrive—without my kids ever hearing about my […]

Originally Published April 22, 2025 Last week, as I was shopping at a big box store, what was supposed to be a simple excursion quickly turned troubling. What began as a peaceful afternoon of shopping transformed into an unsettling encounter that I never expected. The aisles felt wide, and the mellow hum of voices created

Originally Published April 15, 2025 Happy Tax Day! Today, I’m going to go where no other sex worker has gone before. Other than death, the one thing we cannot escape is TAXES! Today is the day that we must come face to face with taxes, and yes, just like you, I pay my taxes (and

Originally Published March 22, 2025 any imagine a sex worker’s daily life to resemble the brothels depicted in classic Western films, where women parade in their lingerie, sip champagne, and freely indulge in every carnal desires with every men and women they encounter. To clarify, most films are fictional, meaning they are fabricated stories and

Originally Published February 15, 2025 Each day, my gratitude deepens for the incredible women I’ve encountered in the sex work industry. This field is largely a “lone wolf” profession. We can’t discuss our work with most people, and we often work independently. The bonds I’ve formed with fellow sex worker friends have been essential to

Originally Published February 12. 2025 Reflecting on my life, I realize that my current situation is far from what I anticipated. At the beginning of my life, my path was crystal clear. Every problem had an obvious solution, and I couldn’t see a life where I would not achieve my goals. Everything looked black and

Originally Published February 5, 2025 What do you picture when you think of the men who visit sex workers? I bet it’s not someone decent, unlike yourself. They’re probably seen as perverts trying to exploit a vulnerable woman and maybe even searching for drugs. Certainly not a nice guy or a family man with a

Originally Published February 2, 2025 Our society views sex work through a negative lens, painting it as unworthy of respect, and people who engage in it as desperate and addicted to drugs. According to a study by the Urban Institute, approximately 67% of people believe sex work is inherently exploitative. This perception contributes to harsh

Originally Published January 30, 2025 When depression knocked on my door, I had no idea what a deep impact it would have on my life. I always thought that overcoming challenges was just a matter of willpower. I believed that a sprinkle of motivation could turn things around. But dang it I was dead wrong.

Originally Published August 24, 2024 Having been married for 20 years, I currently work as a sex worker and cater mainly to nice married men. This particular vantage point has greatly influenced my outlook on the matter. If I were to be completely honest with myself I had unfulfilled desires in my marriage, I would